19. Marriage Over, or Open? 

Written July 14, 2025

I'm Oksana's third husband. Oksana cheated on all of her husbands, including me. When I found out about it, I gave her permission. I wanted her to be happy. I did stipulate, in order to be fair, then I would have to do the same. She initially agreed. Oksana and I actually sat down and came up with rules. We researched other “open” relationships to help define our own rules.

I had a problem with the fact that her current pursuit was an employee at Fore Innovations. Seriously Oksana, can’t you pick somebody from the gym, the grocery store, or get on a dating website? Don’t pick someone at work, or a neighbor, etc...somebody you can get rid of, right?

This guy was actually a pretty descent employee. I had a talk with him and gave him permission BY HER REQUEST. Awkward. It went something like this: “hey, I’ve noticed that you and my wife are flirting all the time, and I’ve talked it over with her, and I’m totally fine if you guys want to f….” I think that is probably 80% accurate.

Here’s the funny thing: HE REJECTED HER!!! He said no. I seriously tried to convince him. He said no.

Imagine her reaction. You can probably imagine her reaction…if you’ve seen her reaction from me leaving her. She chased him around in person, she harassed him on social media. He blocked her from all his accounts, then Oksana used the Fore Innovations IG account to harass him more! (and then deleted the messages...guilty much?) He eventually quit. I’m sorry we lost him.

Here is a transcript of the Google Messenger conversation between me and Oksana during this time…does this sound like a solid marriage? An open marriage? Or a marriage that is OVER? Read for yourself: